Women select for survival and replication value
So what are some characteristics that convey S and R value?
• Looks and height. All other factors being the same, women will generally be more attracted to taller or better-looking men. However, if you are short or ugly, that is absolutely no excuse to feel sorry for yourself. There are plenty of successful venusian arists who aren´t very tall or classically attractive. Looks and height are real factors, and should be taken into account — but they aren´t dealbreakers.
• Being healthy and in shape. Although it´s possible to eat wrong, avoid the gym, and still pick up girls, men who stay fit are simply more attractive to women. This really has a big effect on results; people who work out not only look better, but they also give off a better energy in social interactions.
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• Hygiene and grooming. These are essential. Stay clean and well-groomed, and keep your breath smelling fresh. Don´t be a scrub.
• Fashion sense. People who don´t know how to dress are completely oblivious to how bad their clothes look in the eyes of people who do know how to dress (most of whom are women.) Dressing poorly also conveys a lack of social intelligence, which is a demonstration of lower value. Anyone who isn´t being regularly complimented on his clothes should get a fashion consultant to help fix this problem.
• Being comfortable. It´s often stressed that one should be confident. But the truth is that the most important state of mind in pickup is one of comfort. Your body language should reflect this. Relax, and take up space in a comfortable way. Lean back and make yourself at home.
• Smiling and having a sense of humor. Men who don´t get laid usually don´t smile. There are a lot of guys walking around who don´t look happy. Be the guy who is having a good time and who makes other people feel good. Don´t take yourself too seriously.
• Not being needy. A typical man with high survival and replication value is probably doing fine with his finances. He probably has access to sex. He is probably comfortable in terms of his health and physical needs. Thus, he is not a needy person. It´s important to convey this sense of abundance and to really feel it. When you lust after an outcome, women will pick up on this and perceive you as a low value guy — and women are not programmed to have sex with desperate, low value guys.
• Being unaffected. In keeping with the above line of thought, don´t be reactive or try to impress people. The person trying to impress is perceived to be the one with lower status. Similarly, don´t make excuses for yourself, and don´t come across as someone seeking a reaction, or seeking attention, validation or understanding.
• Having a life. Be ambitious and stay in shape. Have a strong identity and purpose in your life. Have friends and tend to your social circle.
• There are many other ways to convey value — through your game, your body language, your pre-suppositions, your social interactions, and so on. The rest of this book will describe all of these tilings.

D´où l´intérêt de mettre des majuscules

roh et après tu vas pleurer parce que je mets un accent sur ton nom ?

Plutôt la deuxième.

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D´où l´intérêt de mettre des majuscules

roh et après tu vas pleurer parce que je mets un accent sur ton nom ?

Mais c´est compréhensible Alors que Mystery sans majuscule, je le traduisais comme un mot...

« However, if you are short or ugly, that is absolutely no excuse to feel sorry for yourself. » +1

« and keep your breath smelling fresh » Si ce conseil pouvait être mondialement suivi. ^^

« Having a life » Quel enseignement...

J´aime les hommes à la machine à laver moderne.

ok ça marche Néo

Ah bon, ça fait plus moderne comme ça ?
J´ignorais !

Nouveau sujet en rapport avec le topic

La musique peut-elle être utile pour draguer?

(Pourri je sais )

Le rétro revient à la mode et donne un air moderne. ^^

Peacocking
Peacocking is the use of attention-getting clothes to amplify your responses in the field. If you are peacocked, girls will look at you more often, and guys will make sniggering comments. This means that there will be more social pressure on you than you would normally experience.
It is a demonstration of higher value when people perceive that you are accustomed to this social pressure and otherwise unaffected by it. (In other words, when people see that you are congruent with your image.)
This congruence is the critical point. A man with a top hat and a feather boa, with two women on his arms and surrounded by laughing friends, looks like the man. Everyone in the room will notice him and women will whisper to one another that they want to be introduced to him. But the same man sitting by himself in the corner could end up looking like a social reject.
Try wearing at least one item that is cool and attention-getting. It may be used as a lock-in prop (chapter 5) as well as allow women to make a comment, good or bad, if they wish to open or sustain a conversation with you.
For example, one tiling she might do if you are talking to her and she senses that the conversation is winding down, she may suddenly say, "Oh that´s a cool necklace." This is her way of continuing the interaction in a perfectly reasonable way, while reserving some element of plausible deniability.
On more than one occasion Mystery has had women walk up to him and tell him that they hate his goggles. He would reply, "No you don´t, you´re attracted to me."
This is why it´s important that the prop be genuinely cool. Otherwise she would look like a try-hard for commenting on it and she´ll lose the courage to do so. (Incidentally you also look like a try-hard every time you tell a girl how cool her necklace looks.)

Il ne faut surtout pas tourner en bourrique !

Ouais, très utile même. La musique véhicule des sentiments et peut changer l´état d´esprit d´un seul coup.

Bourrique ?

Je ne suis pas un âne pour autant.

Xav > Tu as bientôt fini ou ... ?

Neo > Bien sûr, et si tu passes une musique douce avec ta bien-aimée elle appréciera beaucoup

Ahhhh, les musiques douces....
Avec un bon rythme et pourquoi pas de belles paroles compréhensibles ^^

Neo > Bien sûr, et si tu passes une musique douce avec ta bien-aimée elle appréciera beaucoup

Non, j´en suis sûr et certain de ça Vu l´autre fois...

-avec +à tiens.